Category: Marriage
February 5, 2025
Women Said This Makes Men Look Weak
...Recently, my wife and I had the opportunity to ask married women what makes men, specifically husbands, appear weak.
After gathering all the feedback, I was surprised that not one woman mentioned height, physique, muscles, or wealth…not one...
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January 29, 2025
Vali-Dating Your Wife: How to Date Her
I had just turned thirty.
Jim, the husband of a female friend of mine, Mickey, had just died.
His death was one year prior to their 50th wedding anniversary.
I stopped by Mickey’s to check in on her.
During our conversation I asked her what the secret to their marriage was.
Mickey mentioned several factors.
But when she talked about “weekly date-night” she lit up...
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September 4, 2024
Should a Wife Try to Be Beautiful?
A bachelor wants a beautiful woman.
A husband desires his wife to be beautiful.
Both have been accused of being shallow.
Shallow?
Or misunderstood?...
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July 21, 2024
Why Husbands Fight With Their Wives: The Core Reason
In the moment that Eve tempted Adam, he became conscious of the fact that to resist the evil presented by Eve to partake in the forbidden fruit would demand that he resist her.
On one hand, if Adam separated himself from Eve, who “at last is bone of [his] bones and flesh of [his] flesh” (Genesis 2:23), he would have remained with God.
On the other hand, by clinging to Eve, Adam would cut himself off from God.
Adam chose to side with her rather than the God who gave her to him.
Eve became Adam’s idol…and also his bane.... READ MORE
May 8, 2024
Your Wife Doesn’t Feel Loved: 7 Warning Signs
A wife’s number one need is to be secure in love.
Notice the nuance. Not just loved…
She wants to be “Secure” in her husband’s love.
Certainty is the key element.
A wife that is certain of her husband’s love for her will make her husband feel loved.
She will be more confident...
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April 15, 2024
After Committing Adultery…Three Steps
Many of us have committed adultery—physically, digitally, or both.
Often when the husband is guilty of infidelity, his wife blames herself.
Many men who have committed adultery have confided in me that their infidelity has little to do with their wives.
A man does not commit adultery because his wife is not more.
He is unfaithful because he is plagued by believing he is less...
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April 1, 2024
The Burden a Wife Should Not Bear
Women identify men who they deem capable of providing financially and protecting physically as having the potential to be “husband.”
During the dating/courting phase, men put on their best show.
They veil those secret haunting insecurities of self-doubt.
The woman is convinced that he has what it takes.
Post wedding day, a husband gradually shows his true colors.
Little by little he confides in her his self-doubts...
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March 25, 2024
Your Wife Avoiding Sexual Intimacy? This Could be Why…
Your Wife Avoiding Sexual Intimacy?
This Could be Why…
A husband can be disconnected emotionally from his wife— and desire sexual intimacy with her.
When a wife’s emotional needs aren’t addressed, she often resists his sexual advancements.
God created conjugal union to reflect His Triune Godhead.
Each divine Person unreservedly, unselfishly gives to the other, for the sake of the other, and is one with the other.
“Sex” is intended to help souses experience security in selflessness.
But self-giving does not begin in the bedroom.
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February 9, 2024
4 Questions to Ask Your Wife—Marriage Changer
I recently asked a prominent Catholic woman if she could offer advice to men who want a better marriage.
She said:
A woman becomes confident, alive, and giving, both vocationally and intimately when she “knows” and “feels” loved by her husband.
She must know it.
Which means that she must believe it.
Which means she must be convinced of it.
Which means she must feel it and experience it.
This means that her husband must show her.
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